Are we held captive by the lie that we're not good enough because
we've never defined the term "good enough"? "Good enough" is such a
vague and elusive idea. Or is perfection our ideal, our idea of "good
enough"? Then no wonder this lie holds us captive! We take one step
toward this ideal; it backs two steps away. Perfection is unattainable,
but we subconsciously convince ourselves that it is possible. When we
reach for this ideal that we think is firm, we're grasping vapor, a
cloud that slowly drifts away. For who can be perfect? After all, who
determines what's "good enough"? When will we have arrived?
Pursuing "good enough" is not worth it if it drains the life from our
souls, removes the health from our bodies, drips blood from our skin,
steals the joy from our hearts.
We are good enough in the eyes
of our Creator, the only One whose view of us matters. When God created
us, He didn't say, "We'll see how she does" or "Guess he'll have to
do." NO! We are created in the image of GOD, the beautiful and perfect
One. When He made us, He said, "It is VERY GOOD"! Not just "good
enough"--VERY GOOD!!!
Let's take comfort in that, instead of
constantly striving after our own undefined and unattainable standard of
"good enough." You are not what you do. You are not how you perform. You are who you are. You are VERY GOOD!!!
Nov. 24, 2010
Monday, November 25, 2013
Monday, November 4, 2013
Little Girl
Precious baby girl
So innocent, naïve
As I look into your eyes
I see a heart that’s pure
For now you are protected
From anything that hurts
I’d hold you in my arms forever
If I only could
I’d shield your eyes from seeing evil
Keep your mind from turmoil
Protect your heart from feeling pain
Before too long you’ll learn to talk
Before too long you’ll learn to walk
You will learn and grow
Eyes slowly opening to the world
Little girl, just four years old
You saw them fight
You don’t understand
I promise you
It’s not your fault
Still you are left
With wounds which leave
A lasting scar
As lies are branded
On your heart
Little girl
Who’s growing up
You’ll make mistakes that you’ll regret
You’ll think you’ve lost your innocence
Your present wrapped up in your past
You’d give anything to take it back
But now you carry so much shame
You cannot bear all this pain
You’d like to cast it all away
But little girl, do not forget
That you are loved
By your Heavenly Father
He has carried you
Since you were born
He will carry all your pain
He will remove all of your shame
His voice speaks louder than the lies
He’ll wipe away the tears you cry
For he’s the One who makes you pure
And holds your heart until the end
Saturday, October 5, 2013
Fight for Life
With
every struggle that I face
With
every hurt and all this pain
I
wonder at the reason
This
life has always been so hard
The
difficulty never leaves
Why
should I even try to fight?
For
all I want is to escape
To
hide from chaos, pain and fear
To
feel alive and to find joy
To
rest and live and breathe
I
wonder if the struggle
Will
be worth it in the end
But
giving up does not bring life
And
giving in does not dull pain
Running
away does not bring peace
So
I will fight and never quit
I
will press on until the end--
Until
I have found life
Friday, July 19, 2013
The Prison of the Mind
For so long I’ve been a slave
A
prisoner to lies
Truths
and half-truths weave together
Occupy
my mind
Thoughts
of death and darkness
Secret
fears and sin
And
though you try to reach me
I
cannot let you in
The
darkness is intoxicating
I
breathe in and out the lies
Though
you may try to help me
I’ll
tell you I am fine
The
lies are slowly killing me
But
they are all I know
If
I left them all behind
To
where else would I go?
I
cannot live like this forever
Something
has to give
I
need someone to help me
Someone
to let me live
For
too long I’ve been a slave
A
prisoner to lies
I
need someone to free me
From
the prison of my mind
I
need to feel the love
That
I’ve been numb to all these years
To
feel your arms around me
To
cast away my fears
I
need to see the purpose
The
meaning in my life
To
know that there is so much more
Than
pain, darkness and lies
If
I let you love me
Then
maybe I could see
The
truth behind the lies
Buried
deep inside of me
Thursday, July 18, 2013
Depression
The sun shines down
And warms her face
The cool breeze blows
Against her skin
She lies in the green grass
Stares up at the blue sky
Happiness—
This feeling is so foreign
She knows it is not here to stay
But she’ll enjoy it while it lasts
Uneasiness sets in
The sky turns gray
A cool fog dampens her skin
She knew this companion of darkness would return
God, please make it leave, she whispers
The familiar lies run through her mind.
You are worthless.
You will never be good enough.
You’re alone.
You might as well give up.
She tries to remember what’s true
But lies are all she can hear
They all expect her to be happy
To just wake up and be okay
They won’t believe that she is sick
And cannot heal herself
What they do not know
Is that just living, breathing
Is exhausting
Pretending to be happy
Just makes things worse
When she’s dying inside
Simultaneously hurt and numb
She’s afraid to keep on living
But giving up is not an option
So she’ll keep on fighting
Keep on breathing
And hope that someday
This darkness will fade
Someday she’ll find hope
And know the Truth
That sets her free
Alive
You’re alive
You are not dead
Your heart is beating
Lungs are breathing
You’re alive, you’re alive
You are thinking, you are feeling
You’re alive, you’re alive
The pain is real
And it is strong
But hope is real
And it is stronger
You’re alive, you’re alive
So go outside
And smell the flowers
Hear the wind blow in the trees
Listen to the birds that sing
Feel the sun upon your face
You’re alive, you’re alive
The God who’s made creation good
Has declared you “very good”
You’re alive, you’re alive
You are loved and you are worthy
Precious child of the King
You are clean and you’re forgiven
Brought from darkness into light
And in Him you find your healing
You’re alive, you’re alive
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
The Problem with Self-Punishment
“Just
as man is destined to die once, and after that to face judgment, so Christ was
sacrificed once to take away the sins of many people; and he will appear a
second time, not to bear sin, but to bring salvation to those who are waiting
for him.” Hebrews 9:27-28
Many
people all over the world, from various religions, hurt themselves physically
to try to please their gods. But when is the self-punishment enough? There’s
never any assurance of salvation.
Many
people hurt themselves for various reasons—by cutting, or in other ways. There
are many reasons people do this, but a common reason is self-punishment. We
know that sin cannot go unpunished. It cannot simply be excused. Blood must be
shed. Even Hebrews 9:22 says, “And without the shedding of blood there is no
forgiveness.” The problem comes in when we think it’s our own blood that needs
to be shed. If we hurt or punish ourselves every time we sin, does that really
take away our sin? No, we’ll probably sin again pretty soon! And how will we
know when we’ve suffered enough, hurt ourselves enough? It can never be enough!
In
the Old Testament, God instructed the Jews to sacrifice animals to “pay” for
their sins. But these animals could not take the people’s sin away permanently.
The people kept sinning, so they kept having to offer sacrifices every year.
But God sent his perfect Son, Jesus into the world to die in our place, for our
sins. He bled and died, and after three days, he rose to life. His blood was
enough to cover all our sins, past, present and future. He forgives us for
everything we have done wrong. Because He died once, we have no need to punish
ourselves again and again and again. Jesus takes away our sin completely,
forever, and self-punishment cannot. We need to simply accept Jesus’ death in
our place and his forgiveness, and thank him for it.
So
maybe you’re thinking, “Okay, but I don’t self-injure. How does this relate to
me?” Well, when you sin, do you accept Jesus’ forgiveness, or do you continue
to beat yourself up with guilt and shame? Do you place your identity in the
mistakes you’ve made? Do you think you’re a failure and get discouraged about
how many times you’ve messed up in the same way? We are not saved from our sins
by the good works we do, but by what Jesus did for us. Jesus did the work by
taking our punishment on himself. It is our choice whether we will accept his
gift to us.
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